Q: Can you describe your services?
A: Using the term "services" puts the Companionship experience in an entirely different light than what I like to think I "provide." Companionship, from my perspective, is the coming together of two people on several levels – emotional, intellectual, and physical – without the limitations, attachments, and requirements of more traditional relationships. I am a safe haven if you will, for experimentation, growth, open playfulness, relaxation, and stimulation of all kinds. Once we get to know each other over time, I also provide, in various forms, emotional support, perspective on life, and good old-fashioned counsel. I am a playmate, a toy, a friend, advisor, and/or a therapist, depending on what you need at any particular moment. You might say that I provide a space for the fulfillment of unmet needs. My own essential multifaceted physical desires and needs, my education and travel, my business experience, and my general life experiences enable me to fulfill a wide variety of needs. You can't describe what any true Companion provides with a series of checkboxes and acronyms, and that includes me.
Q: Ok, but do you provide the "girlfriend experience" or the "porn star experience?"
No. Any Companion relationship worthy of the name is a real, vital, albeit unique, relationship. Within the context of the Companionship relationship experience, I provide the Lia Experience, something truly authentic and unique, not a pretend version of another type of relationship (as real, vital, and important as such a relationship might be). It is best not to confuse a real Companionship relationship with other relationships, and every true Companion is different (and if she is good, she is different for and with each patron, providing what each one needs at a particular moment). I am here for my patrons when they need me, and when they don't need me, they don't have to worry about me. (Although some of my patrons very flatteringly tell me that they think about me a lot between dates).
Q: Why should I choose you?
A: What you experience with me is genuine, and complex. I love being a Companion, and work as one as a matter of choice, not necessity. I am a real person and relate to my patrons as real people. While, as an erotic aficionado, I love variety and experimentation, if you have a simple checklist in your head of menu items of activities that you just have to sample, I am probably not the Companion for you. On the other hand, if you are looking for both breadth and depth in a relationship with a beautiful, complex, intelligent and educated Companion, who just loves pleasing you, then you should consider contacting me. Of course, it all depends on that real, hard-to-define, but special something we all call "chemistry." Because of my essential nature, I find that I tend to have "chemistry" with a wide variety of individuals. You and I won't know if we have it, however, if you don't set up that all important first appointment.
Q: What kind of men seek your companionship?
A: Those men who seek a restorative interlude from their otherwise busy, active lives. Those who enjoy the company of an intelligent, attractive woman. Those who want fulfilling companionship on several different levels and who truly value the benefits of the non-traditional nature of our relationship.
Q. You are so physically fit. Do you require your friends to be equally fit?
A. No, although that would be nice! Fitness is wonderful, but much more important is cleanliness, good grooming, good health, nice manners, and, of course, intelligence.
Q. What are some of your favorite experiences?
A. I love conversations that range from simple banter to philosophical discussions; listening to great music together; or enjoying a wonderful meal at a fine restaurant. I also love working out and being outdoors – hiking, biking, running, skiing. Art is a passion of mine – I love to draw and paint – as well as go to galleries and museums. I also love to have new experiences and learn new things, so please share your interests with me!
Q: Ok, when can I meet you? What is your availability? How much advance notice do you require?
A: I am a very low volume Companion. I never overload myself. Established patrons understand and respect this. Indeed, they appreciate the value of meeting someone who is always fresh and eager to see them. Assuming I am available, if you are a new friend, I generally require at least 24 hours advance notice so I can complete the screening process. With that said, I love spontaneity and do my best to honor short notice requests from established patrons, although, sadly, I am not always able to do so.
Beyond that, a great date requires proper planning and preparation on my part. I always want to look and feel my very best for you so I can make our time together as special as possible. You want that too, don't you? This requires advance notice on your part.
The net result of all this is that I am often booked 2-3 weeks in advance for new friends, and sometimes longer, and am not always available even for established friends. Giving me as much advance notice possible is thus always a very good idea, and very much appreciated.
Please note that I never ever respond to last-minute requests from someone I don't know. (I don't know why I bother to even write this, as the only kind of man who makes such request is the type who would never read a Companion's website beyond her Gallery section, and, if you have read this far, you are happily and clearly not that type).
Q. Is initial screening really necessary?
A. Yes. Safety and discretion are my top priorities. Without the security of knowing you are someone I am safe and comfortable being with, meeting you is simply impossible. Before we can meet the first time, please expect me to confirm your personal details. Completing this understandably burdensome process (I don't enjoy it either) as rapidly as possible is essential to any possibility of a relationship. Let's just work together to get it done as fast as possible so we can move on to the finer things in life! Once done, forever done.
Q: Can we talk on the phone or communicate via text before our initial meeting?
A: No. I communicate via email exclusively until we set a date and confirm it 24 hours in advance.
Q. What will you wear on our date?
A. I take a great deal of pride in my appearance, and I dress appropriately for all occasions. I have the full range of attire, from business to elegant evening dresses, to casual to outdoor, and even to workout wear. If we are to interact in public, I never dress to attract undue attention. Unless, of course, you request otherwise. Some patrons love it when I dress – well, in a way that stimulates their imagination – and I slip quietly into their hotel room or office. I love dressing to please you! Of course, I have a wide selection of lingerie. I take special joy modeling lingerie! Let me know if you have a dress preference, and I will do my very best to accommodate your desires.
Q. Can you send me more photos?
A. My photos are all current and accurate representations of my current appearance. Unfortunately, I cannot send additional photos. However, I do occasionally post "selfies" and new photos on my website on an erratic basis, so check out my website – you may be pleasantly surprised!
Q. Do you see couples and women?
A. Yes! I love meeting with couples and with women. Please contact me to set it up!
Q. Can you set up a "duo"?
A. Absolutely! That is one of my favorite kinds of rendezvous. I have a couple of beautiful companion friends who love to play in threesomes. Let me know if you would like for me to arrange for a very hot tryst with one of them. For more details please see my Couples page.
Q. Are your rates negotiable?
A. My rates are not negotiable, and should never be discussed, either in writing or verbally. My rates allow me to be as selective and discerning as you are. If my rates are not acceptable, I encourage you to explore other options. However, once we know each other well, if you feel we are very compatible and well-suited to each other, I will be happy to discuss arrangements for travel, special trips or events, or long-term patronage.
Q. Why haven't you responded to my emails?
A. Please allow me up to 24 hours to respond to emails and appointment requests. I do my very best to respond as fast as possible, but between my "day" job and other commitments, it sometimes just doesn't happen any faster than that, unfortunately!
With that said, I will simply not respond if you make an inquiry with some sort of juvenile "u r hot" type of communication, attempt to negotiate "prices," ask about menu items, fail to provide adequate information on the screening form, have inadequate references, or in some other fashion indicate that we are not compatible.
Q. Are tips and gifts required?
A. Tips are never expected, but always appreciated and remembered! If you would like to bring a gift instead, please check out my Wish List.
Q: Do you allow photos/video on a date?
A: No.
Q. Can I see you off the clock?
A. I am flattered that you want to spend more time with me, but I am unavailable for "off the clock" meetings.
Q: How do you feel about Reviews?
A: I have mixed feelings about Reviews. I certainly understand and appreciate the need for Reviews. Reviews help prospective clients get some sense of a Companion before committing to meet her. And, beyond being part of an initial screening process, some men love to communicate with others about their wonderful and often very intense experiences. This is part of the fun, too. Fair enough.
On the other hand, it goes without saying that a vital part of discretion (and respect for our time together) is not sharing certain intimate details or private conversations on any board.
Moreover, I find reviews to be a very imperfect means of communicating the nature of the relationships I have with my patrons, most of which typically last for some time. We are human beings, after all, and much greater than the sum of any specific "services" we "provide." The relationship we create with another human being, no matter how brief, cannot be easily quantified by a ratings system or list of specific actions set forth in acronyms. My patrons understand this, and even share this sentiment.
To really confuse you, however, another part of me loves Reviews. What companion does not like to read how much a client loved to be with her? It is quite flattering. I am quite proud of mine! So much so that I post them on this website. Go figure!
(Note, emails and texts of appreciation post meeting are true aphrodisiacs. And, I hope you don't mind if I share parts of them on the Review section of this website. Very anonymously, of course. If you do, let me know, and I will remove any that you might think you wrote.
The bottom line – I am grateful for the occasional review. (Assuming it is positive!) If you are going to write about our time together, please keep the narrative tasteful and obvious personal details private. And if you enjoyed our time together, by all means let me know via email and/or text.